A Time to Remember, A Time to Give Thanks: The Humble Life of Sister Ethelbert (1858-1894)

November is the Month of the Holy Souls, a time when Catholics are called to remember and pray for those who have gone before us. In keeping with this tradition, we are launching a special series over the next few weeks, sharing the stories of individuals laid to rest at Gardens of Gethsemani Catholic Cemetery.

These mini-biographies honour the legacy and lasting impact of each person, celebrating lives marked by faith, generosity, and virtue. Through their stories, we hope to inspire our community to reflect on the importance of memory and legacy, recognizing how past lives can illuminate our present and shape our future.

Titled A Time to Remember, A Time to Give Thanks, this series underscores our shared Catholic heritage and the beauty of commemorating those who lived their faith. Some of these remarkable individuals will also feature in the updated St. Peter’s Cemetery tour book, ensuring that their memory continues to inspire for generations to come. 

In 1886, the Sisters of Charity of Providence embarked on a mission to establish St. Mary’s Hospital in New Westminster, a project that required great effort and sacrifice. Among the Sisters was Sister Mary Ethelbert, a woman of profound humility, obedience, and diligence.

Born in Iowa, Marie-Madeleine Newlin, later Sister Ethelbert in religious life, was raised Protestant but converted to Catholicism at the age of 15, inspiring her entire family to follow her path of faith. By age 19, she entered the novitiate of the Sisters of Providence in Oregon, dedicating her life to service, where her virtues as a novice stood out, even with her frail health.

From the very beginning, Sister Ethelbert played a vital role in raising funds for the hospital. In September 1886, she and Sister John of Calvary set off on a “begging mission” to Kamloops, travelling through rough terrain to gather donations. 

Their efforts resulted in about $2,000—a substantial sum in that era—demonstrating the determination and diligence that marked Sister Ethelbert’s life. This was not the last of her journeys. Year after year, she travelled to remote locations, including logging camps and distant communities, to ensure that the hospital could continue its mission to care for the sick, especially those who could not afford to pay.

Her humility and obedience were evident in every action. Sister Ethelbert never sought praise or recognition. She simply did what was asked of her, always putting the needs of others before her own. One of her companions, Sister Lucretia, recounted a treacherous fundraising trip through remote parts of British Columbia. Enduring cold, hunger, and dangerous conditions, they persevered, driven by their devotion to God and the people they served. Sister Lucretia admired Ethelbert’s quiet strength, describing her as “not a troublemaker, but a truly good and sisterly person.”

Obedience to her vocation took Sister Ethelbert on another difficult journey in November 1893, this time to the Kootenays. It was during this mission that she fell gravely ill. Despite her weakened state, she remained steadfast in her duties until her illness forced her to return to New Westminster. After battling an abscess that led to poisoning, Sister Ethelbert passed away on Sept. 11, 1894, at the age of 35. 

Sister Ethelbert’s life exemplified the Christian virtues of humility, obedience, and diligence. She worked tirelessly for the good of others, never seeking personal glory. Her dedication to the mission of St. Mary’s Hospital and her unwavering faith in God serve as a reminder of the quiet power of humble service. As we remember her life, we give thanks for her example of selfless love and devotion, knowing that her legacy continues to inspire those who follow in her footsteps. May she rest in peace and pray for us all.

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