This reflection on reverence and unity during Mass was developed by Alexander Fantillo, a parishioner at St. Joseph’s in Mission, in collaboration with the Archdiocese’s Liturgy Commission. With the support of Archbishop J. Michael Miller, it is being made available to help the faithful deepen their participation in the sacred liturgy.
In his Jan. 20 column Worship ‘as one body,’ Father Vincent Hawkswell reflected on how the congregation can truly unite in prayers, gestures, and responses during Mass. His insights, echoed by Pope Francis in Desiderio Desideravi, are a reminder that when we worship together with one voice and one heart, we participate fully in the celebration of the Eucharist.
Silence, reverence, and unity can deepen our experience of Mass. They are not about rules but about growing in understanding and love for the liturgy, which the Church has handed down to us as a gift.
Preparing Our Hearts and Minds
Our reverence at Mass begins before we even step into the church. Fasting for at least one hour before receiving Holy Communion reminds us to prepare spiritually for this sacred encounter. Dressing modestly and arriving early sets the tone for worship. Once inside, silence helps us focus and reflect, preparing our hearts for the presence of Christ.
As we enter the sanctuary, simple gestures remind us of the sacredness of this space. Blessing ourselves with holy water and genuflecting (if physically able) are outward signs of our inward faith. In the pew, a moment of silent prayer is a beautiful way to begin Mass with humility, asking God to forgive our venial sins and make us ready to receive His word and sacraments.

Participating as One Body
During Mass, the gestures, prayers, and responses are meant to unite us as one worshipping community. Pope Francis, in his apostolic letter Desiderio Desideravi, explained how participating with “one voice” and “one body” helps us discover our unique role within the Church.
Here are a few ways we can participate with reverence:
• Respond to prayers and hymns confidently and clearly, as outlined in the Missal.
• Bow your head at the name of Jesus and at the words “by the Holy Spirit” during the Creed.
• During the Our Father, place your hands in the praying, folded position. The orans posture, with hands extended, is reserved for the priest alone.

Small gestures like these may seem insignificant, but they align us with the Church’s traditions and foster unity. For example, we do not make gestures toward the priest at “The Lord be with you” or “Peace be with you.” Instead, our responses, such as “And with your spirit,” are simple yet profound ways of participating.
Receiving Holy Communion with Reverence
Receiving the Eucharist is the high point of the Mass. To approach it worthily, we must be in a state of grace, free from mortal sin. If we are not, we are encouraged to come forward for a blessing instead.
When receiving Communion, a simple bow of the head shows reverence. If you receive on the hand, place your left hand as an altar for your right hand, consume the host immediately, and make the Sign of the Cross. Returning to your pew, kneeling in prayer until the priest sits or the host is returned to the tabernacle helps us remain in the presence of Christ with gratitude.

After Mass: A Time for Thanksgiving
After the final blessing and recessional hymn, take a moment to offer a prayer of thanksgiving. Silence is encouraged, and applause is not given to the choir, as their role is to lead us in prayerful song, not to perform.
As you leave, genuflect toward the tabernacle and bless yourself with holy water as a reminder of your baptism. These small acts of devotion carry the grace of the Mass with us as we go into the world.
Why These Gestures Matter
In a world filled with distractions and individualism, these practices call us to something greater—unity as the body of Christ. They remind us that worship is not about personal preferences but about coming together in harmony, following the traditions passed down through the Church.
As Father Hawkswell explained, our gestures and silence are not mere formalities but expressions of the Holy Spirit working in us. They move us to prayer, repentance, and a deeper encounter with God.
Let us strive to approach Mass with reverence and unity, so we can truly become the “one body” Christ prayed for us to be: “that they may all be one” (Jn 17:21).
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